someone out of town | yuna
"I’m getting bad again but I’m too tired to care."
"Sometimes we say that we met people at the wrong time. But maybe we meet them when we are the wrong person, when we have not yet met and fallen in love with ourselves. We are only half of a thing—even if we can imagine that there is a better version of us out there—and we are hoping that someone else will fill in the missing parts so that we don’t have to."
#i just really really love the way she writes
"But to break the cycle and force yourself to stop initiating contact, to stop making effort, and to stop caring about their response — that is much harder. That means admitting that you have lost a battle you didn’t even want to acknowledge you were fighting. But when we’re trying to get someone to love us back, it’s always a battle. And it’s one we’re almost always guaranteed to lose…"
it’s not your job to entertain him by sending him nudes
it’s not your job to satisfy him sexually because he’s horny
you are not required to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don’t want to do
don’t be scared of “loosing him”
he most likely wasn’t anything worth keeping
good things to tell yourself everyday
#this is just what i needed
❁ i am worthy
❁ i am more than my appearance
❁ i am loved
❁ i am cared for
❁ i am strong
❁ i am beautiful
❁ i am a good person
❁ i am allowed to get rid of the toxic people in my life
❁ my body does not define me
❁ i deserve respect
❁ i deserve good things
❁ i do not need to justify my actions
❁ and most importantly, i can get through anything.
(Source: useyourmelody, via maui-vibes)
#let's do this
This. Is it. Fuck the endless online dates. Screw the douche-y sex driven college guys and anyone who pretends to be the type of person I’m looking for. I’m completely over ALL of it. Every little bit of it. I’m not going to let myself be sad anymore. I’m going to live my life the way I want to live it and not give a fuck about what anyone thinks of me. I’m going to be me. I’m going to take care of myself to the best of my ability and no longer be shy. The latter being a primary change for myself. After a total of three years, I’m going to finally be me again. The spontaneous girl who approaches anyone. Willing to talk about whatever pops into my mind and I’m going to be willing to develop and welcome new and interesting people into my life. I’m going to let myself be confident because there is absolutely nothing that I should be uncertain nor ashamed about in myself. I’m no longer going to be anyone’s fucking cheerleader since I’ll be too busy rooting for myself. I miss working out and I’m sick of eating shit all the time. My health is going to be a new topic for me to focus on. This will involve including more sleep and incorporating more workouts into my life. I’m going to let myself learn to cook new foods and master numerous hobbies while also reading an endless amount of books. I’m going to excel in this Masters program and I’m going to become more involved in numerous research projects. I will garner funding and I will make an impression on both the faculty and my peers. I’ve made it this far in such little time and I’m not going to let my emotions over any fucking men get in the way of me reaching my fullest potential. I have one life to live and I plan on living it to the fullest.
"So you brought out the best of me,
#the lameness continues
A part of me I’ve never seen.
You took my soul and wiped it clean."
|person:||wow you drink so much water, you're so healthy!!
|me:||i cry so much i gotta stay hydrated
please reblog this if it is okay to anonymously confess something to you
(Source: askpillow, via jordysnelson)